Bill Bartmann Discusses the Cause of Insecurity
Feelings of insecurity are a threat to your self esteem which may already be suffering. Building your self-confidence and self-esteem is vital to your happiness and success in life. Bill Bartmann says there are many reasons people feel insecure, including:
Fear of challenge or fear of change
Whatever the problem is, brooding over it will not make it go away. Fear of a negative outcome often makes people doubt themselves, affecting their ability to cope. The feeling of insecurity comes from a lack of self-confidence. Eventually, one finds themselves avoiding difficult situations when they should be confronting them and overcoming them.
Bill Bartmann overcomes Insecurity
When you are feeling insecure, ask yourself if there is a valid reason for this feeling, and then look for ways to either solve the problem or feel more comfortable with the situation. Maybe you need to work on certain skills to increase your self-confidence.
Everyone has fears; the world is filled with worries and insecurity. Talking to others about your fears can help to put them into perspective; you may find that others share your fears. Or, you might discover that your fears are unfounded.
Relationship problems and social problems can often be overcome by discussing the issues. If you have money problems, look at your spending habits and see if you can cut back somewhere. If you are not happy with your job, look at what is available; maybe it’s time for a career change.
Whatever the cause of the insecurity, it needs to be confronted and dealt with. It’s OK to ask for help; many need the assistance of professional counseling to overcome their fears and feelings of insecurity.
Bill Bartmann is the ultimate underdog/survivor/achiever, overcoming personal circumstances and tragedy to rise to the top enterprise in America. Homeless at age 14, a member of a street gang and a high-school dropout - Bill took control of his life by taking the GED exam and putting himself through college and law school.